Supporting a Problem Gambler

Problem gambling often has serious effects for those close to the person with the problem. It will not be easy to approach the subject with a them. You must remember from the start that you will be able to force someone to quit gambling. However, showing concern and offering support are important first steps for helping them to resolve their problems.

Choose the right time to talk to them and let them know that you are concerned about their behavior.   Don't be angry or aggressive. A problem gambler will probably feel vulnerable discussing this subject so you should avoid sounding judgmental, but  you should be specific about the problem and let them know if the problem is affecting other people and specifically: you. Be supportive so you do not force the person to defend themselves.

Remember, you will not be able to stop someone from gambling - they will have to make that decision themselves when they are ready to tackle the problem. Overcoming the problem will take time and commitment so your support will be invaluable.

GAMCARE is a registered UK charity providing practical help, information and advice on the impact of problem gambling. They offer support to gamblers and those close to gamblers through a telephone helpline, message forum, chat room, counseling service and monthly newsletter.

If you are concerned about gambling then the questions on their online questionnaire may help to rationalise the problem. From acknowledging a problem to resolving it with the level of support you need, they have the experience and resources to help anyone with such a problem.

Read their website for a huge supply of information on gambling, or contact their helpline on 0845 6000 133 (8am until midnight, 7 days a week).

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